sometimes i would just think to say nth,don't know and don't care.MYOB!sometimes if u don't care,people may think you are cold and useless and stuff.if you care people may think you are so busy body.careless no good care too much also no good huh?walao.this is life la.trials of many kinds have to go through wan la.what i recall or what's in my mind is leave or put down your burden and move forward for your life.this is how you grow too.you may grow as well as reading good books.both are important anyway.move forward and think!i hope me myself express more and talk more instead of talking nonsense..